The 4 Poisons

The 4 Poisons

What do arguments look like in your relationship? You know, that moment when you are not exactly sure what just happened but now you are into something deep and not quite sure where it originated from. Do you raise your voice? Do you make a mean joke? Do you cross...

Does Distance Work?

Does Distance Work?

I recently reconnected with an old friend of mine. You know, one of those childhood friends that you’ve shared many experiences with. Maybe you don’t keep in touch so much anymore, but every time you reunite it’s as if you pick up right where you left off years ago....

Conversation Monopolist

Conversation Monopolist

This week’s blog is a question from our readers about friendship and a challenging situation. Enjoy! Question from an anonymous reader – “How do you deal with friends who manipulate and monopolize the conversation with a topic about themselves? Then...

What is your Love Style?

What is your Love Style?

A friend of mine recently asked me about relationship routines and ruts. My friend believes, he and his wife are in a rut, he is giving more than receiving in their relationship. As I listened to him share, I was able to hear that my friend did not feel appreciated...

Pick Your Battles…b*llsh*t!

Pick Your Battles…b*llsh*t!

“Pick Your Battles” is a phrase I often hear women say to friends, newlyweds or their younger proteges. I also hear “wait for the right moment” to talk about an issue. These beliefs have often confused me, because when I “pick my battles” that means I brush...

What does visioning do really?

What does visioning do really?

There is a lot of hype around 2016 being the worst year ever. What do you think? I thought 2016 was a pretty amazing year. Yes, I had some setbacks, but overall it was a year of growth, accomplishment and special little moments. On New Year’s Day, it is a tradition in...